My shade garden taught me about compromise, but when it comes to choosing a husband, I won't settle for pretty ground cover. Here's why being 'picky' in love is actually wise—and why I'm waiting for the flowers.
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Why I’m a Perennial, Not an Annual: Lessons from My Neighbor’s Forgotten Daffodils
Impatiens live and die in one season where you can watch. Peonies disappear underground and make you wait. I've been judging my life by what's visible, forgetting that perennials need winters to bloom.