When Charming Met My Family: Finding Joy After Years of Empty Chairs

For years there was an empty chair at family dinners where my partner should have been. Then Charming came home with me for Mom's 65th birthday, and everything felt complete.

The Friend Who Taught Me the Difference Between Surviving and Living

My friend believes the best of her life is behind her—just like I used to. Here's what happened when I challenged her to dream again, and why I bought a piano the next day.

Using Rhetoric to Fall in Love: A Teacher’s Guide to Choosing Charming

My students are studying persuasive essays, and I realized I'm basically writing one about whether to fall in love with Charming. Using ethos, pathos, and logos, here's my argument for opening my heart again.

Pulling Up Dying Impatiens: Why I Can’t Regret My Divorce

Replacing summer flowers with fall mums, I faced the hardest question: why did I choose divorce? Sometimes you have to pull up dying things to make room for God's chalkboard promise: "Behold, I make all things new."

Embracing Fall After Divorce: How I Learned to Stop Hiding My Scars

Divorce felt like wearing a scarlet letter until I met someone who showed me scars don't define us. Sometimes the most healing conversations happen with strangers who become mirrors.

Single Teacher Falls for Autumn Instead of Prince Charming: Writing My Own Part II

My tenth graders studied fairy tale archetypes today. The damsel needs rescuing; the hero needs a quest. But I mow my own lawn and fix my own electrical sockets. Maybe my Part II is about falling in love with fall instead of falling for a fantasy.

Two Shootings in Five Days—But My Evening Glories Keep Me Writing on This Porch

So when are you moving?' the officer asked after the second shooting. But it's my evening glories that shield me from the foster home's porch light, Mrs. Washington who talks gardens with me. Twenty-eight weeks ago, I started writing in a document called 'I Used to Be.' Now I bloom where I'm planted—gunshots and all.