Turning 35 Single and Childless: Why I Wouldn’t Go Back to 19

I used to pity my divorced teacher with her mid-year name change. At 35, I became her. Here's why I wouldn't trade this broken, beautiful journey for the fearless girl I used to be.

Playing LIFE with My Boyfriend Taught Me What’s Missing: There’s No Divorce in Board Games

I sued Charming three times and still felt jealous of his blue-peg children. In Hasbro's LIFE, marriage is guaranteed—a mandatory stop for all players. But neither of us had instructions for when real marriages bite the dust. Maybe that's why we keep playing: we still have a chance to get it right.

Six Hours on My Knees Pulling Clover: How My Ex-Husband Became a Garden Weed

Kathy at Home Depot warned me: those pretty pink clovers are weeds that steal nutrients. My ex-husband's aunt warned me too—he was just a little boy playing house. Both times, I fell for the pink flowers.

The Magnolia Trees Bloomed While I Was Waiting for Perfect

I planned to photograph the magnolias when the light was right and the trash cans weren't there. By the time I returned, they were bare. I've spent my whole life waiting for the perfect moment that never comes.